I have to disagree with PMA_Baby and on the fence with Stuck.
I think she was bringing up things that really did bug her in the past about you....I could be wrong, I wasn't there, but I got the impression she was truly trying to tell you This Bugged the Hell Out of Me.....I need to know this won't happen again and that I can talk to you.
The weeds....ok that's weird. (I don't know crap about a garden either....To this day my mother still brings up the fact that she sent me out to the garden to get a cucumber and I came back with a zucchini.)
I don't know. Maybe she still wants a divorce and she's just trying to be nice knowing how hard all of this is on you. But I just don't see it that way....I think she's starting to try. And she's being more physical with you. Always a good sign. I don't think a woman could be physical with someone she doesn't even like. And it sounds to me she's trying to tell you what her issues were....why bother if she just wants to divorce you?
And do you really think love is blind? I don't. I think love is seeing everything but being ok with it.
