I have had, on occasion, the oppurtunity to talk to a few MLC'ers that have made it to the other side. One of the common things I hear is that, although they do snoop just as much as we have to stop ourselves from doing. It changes for them.
In the beginning, they do it to try to find something to relieve their guilt.
But as time goes on, it tends to change for them. Once they start to wonder, and once the curiousity starts coming around, I have heard that it is to see if what they are seeing from us, matches what we are telling everyone else.
Double checking our actions to verify that we are real for ourselves and for them.
