On the MC issue. I would talk to the MC and see if you can have them on healing the R and looking foward rather than rehashing what happened in the past (you may want to talk to them about this in private). Constantly looking backwards just reminds the WAW of the pain they felt and it makes it so they feel that pain again and again every time it is revisited.
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