Steady thanks.... On 1 she hasn't initiated ILY recently. I called her on it just before she moved into her room (before she said there was a problem) and W said she always says it just not first. She doesn't need to say it all the time. Just knows I love her and I should know she loves me, it should be understood. She was secure in the relastionship. On the recent calls it feels like a game of chicken who will say it. I know she is waiting so I didn't day it and neither did she. She no longer says it at night time so I have been saying. With the kids around it is necessary.
On 2 morning me good bye me and W hello after work me. Goodnight her. On 3 will keep doing it On 4 understood On 5 can't explain in just a few words. Kids sit with me to watch tv or help we cook in the kittchen and she comes up with something else to do. She puts down whatever book she is reading. Not what used to happen a week ago or so. I will grow some thicker skin on this one On 6 will do On 7 will try. Sorry to hear your sitch We have MC today. Should be interesting. The last MC brought the pain to which she has associated the current living arrangements. Also her trying to feel well. Will update later.
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