I for one think my SBTXH falls into the very final category (after 6). Not once has he stopped to look back at the destruction. In fact he keeps on destroying. His recent announcement of OWs pregnancy proves all that. I'm told my D14 became hysterical when he told her. I'm told he unexpectedly cried at this outburst. I'd like to think it was b/c he was upset that she was so hurt but I'm more inclined to think that he was upset b/c she wasn't happy for him.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15