WTH? I mean,WOW, I literally called retro phone number HERE, (in expensive California)...and the woman who answered said she conducts it with her h and they'll ask for "donations" AFTER the weekend, but they "Will turn no one down for financial reasons" (I AM quoting)...BUT they do ask up front for the $125...(So I guess the donation is in addition to the $125 but even that, she said they'd "turn no one down for financial reasons"....so that's quite a variety of answers...maybe a lot depends on facilities available and if there's someone donating the spot?? )
But I find $125 incredibly reasonable if not crazy cheap! (Of course, I'd say that about $800 too, if that's what it costs to save the M. Next to an organ transplant, what's more important? Maybe it's due to what the local facilities available are?
Distracted, you are getting good advice here, so calm down to take it all in. Just focus on now, today. Think before you speak or act and don't do anything regrettable or unloving or speak of ending your m without a lot of sleep and thought FIRST...
j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016