Wifey, Wasn't going to have her read any book at present.Was just wondering because of the thread I mentioned.Anyway I've become sort of an expert in terms of the law here in NY.I know she can't make me sign a sep. agreement.When there is one drawn up I will make sure my atty. looks it over.Right now I am also separated with nothing legal.I am fine with that right now but W wants something legal.I can tell her forget it but that seems to make her more angry.But living in NY you also know that there needs to be grounds for a D.She has no grounds.I am kinda stuck between a rock and a hard place.Oblivously i don't want to go for D now but I still have to protect myself.Looks like there is going to be some negotiating going on.