doodles, I am so sorry to hear that your house got sold. I was really pulling that the bank would come through for you.

You can read up of my thread if you want to. I guess I am not handling things as good as you are because you seem so very strong about it. You have stood up for what you believe in and you have not let your H (or his OW) walk all over you. I still let my H walk all over me. When I start to stand up for myself, I fell like I end up crumbling. You have prevailed through all of this and are still trudging along. I feel like giving up hope and running the other way.

By the way, I love the fact that you asked your son if he wanted a drink while your H may have been on the phone with the OW. That made me laugh!! smile


Me-31
Him-28
D1-9
D2-6
Married 5-06
Seperated 12-07
He filed 1-08
Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08
Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09
Filed for D 4-28-09
Trying to make a go of it 6-09