So you know it isn't likely to last with this OW, but it will be harder for you to trust him again when you do repair this.
If you play 'hardball' right now, you won't win. And yet, you will need to have to ensure boundaries at some point. But you're not there yet, so what to do.
Have you read Divorce Remedy?
The most important thing is not to beg or cry or plead right now, that will push him away. Don't argue with him. It's useless right now and the more he presents his side, the more he 'cements' his position in his head. (What you resist, persists. Don't agree, but don't resist.) Don't agree to divorce. Tell him you need time to think.
Now...focus on yourself. Up your happiness level. Weird advice, when you're husband is out playing around. Pamper, have fun with friends, pick up a hobby. You do want to not take all of his calls, and be a bit mysterious. Then let him guess what you're up to.
Last edited by sgctxok; 07/28/0902:49 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
