I was reading another thread that asked if you could get your WAS to read a book would would it be.I noticed most of the books were about reconciling.I was just wondering if our WAS's are not interested in working things out why not get them to read a book on the more painful things in a divorce.I saw a few such books in a bookstore the other day and flipped thru them.They don't go into detail about fixing things so to speak but more about how divorce devastates a family and why you should try to avoid it if possible.