"She talked about how I made her feel like hired help in the past (i.e. cook, cleaning lady, laundry, etc) and that I didn't make her feel special nor did I make her feel like I wanted to help her. She said even now when she comments about something around the house, I get all angry and defensive and make her feel bad."
REally? Still after all this she's still blaming you for that?
"She said the prior weekend she was frustrated that she had to come over to help with the weeding."
If I recall, you asked her and she offered. You didn't "force" her to do it. Plus why is it such a big deal that you didn't know what a weed was? She could have just told you. Instead she held in that "hurt" and it came out as resentment. Give me a break!
You've got to break her control on you or you'll never get this D busted.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
