Sorry to hear of your situation, but you have come to the right place. Please make sure that your wife won't find any reference to this site on your computer - if she's around, delete your history. This site is for YOU.
Have you read "Divorce Recovery" or "Divorce Busting". If not acquire one or both -- Divorce Remedy is really an update of Divorce Busting -- and read them ASAP.
When you questions or need to vent -- come here. Until you get the books, I'd give her her space. No calling, texting, e-mailing. If she calls and you want to talk to her, go ahead, but keep it short, and make sure you initiate the end of the conversation: "It was nice talking to you, but I'm on my way out the door" or something to that affect.
There are tons of great people here, and they know what you're going through -- take heart.
