Update on W's job sitch. She turned in her resignation today. no updates from her this afternoon (no big deal cuz NO EXPECTATIONS) so I did not how it went for her until I got home. I walked in the door and was in a good mood. First thing she said (after I kissed my D5) was "well, how was your day" in a sarcastic tone (but I could tell it wasn't directed at me). I said it was good.
Since she hadn't updated me on her afternoon, I was not going to ask jer how it went. Cuz that's how I roll these days - if she wants me to know, she'll tell me. So, I went to my room and changed to go work out.
Went back to the front of the house where family was and put my running shoes on. W made small talk. No W, I'm not gonna ask how your day went. I suppose she couldn't stand it anymore, b/c she just told me how it went. After she opened that door, I then asked questions. Kids were right there so I could not ask some things.
I went and had a great workout then back home for dinner with the family. Was a great dinner. Everyone relaxed and joking a lot. W seems good - I can see it in her face and body language that a great deal of pressure has been lifted off of her. Don't know what, if anything, this will mean for "us.". But, for now, there seems to be peace in the valley.
Earlier today, I made reservations for W and I at a restaurant I wanted to try. I think I will wait until later in the week to ask W if she wants to go so the dust from her job sitch can settle.
Normally, W not updating me with something like this would make me angry. Not today. I just had no expectations of her and thought it was her loss if she did not want to rely on me if she had the need to do so.
Feeling good about things and W seems to be opening up a little. So, I'm expecting her to pull back soon. Just have to see.
