I do need the help of my brother right now however I don't need the crap...
I understand completely that no one agrees with the choice I have made - That is fine however do I really need to hear about it each and every single day? The answer is no...
We may not agree on the choices I have made however how many times do I have to say...It is my life, my choice? The answer is at least 3 times a day...And quite frankly I am tired of saying it...
I wish people would let me be...
Let me live with my choice and keep their traps shut...
They have stated their case, my mind isn't changing so leave it alone...
That would help me very very much...
Serenity - have you tried to tell those who won't keep their opinions to themselves thank you but no thank you? Let them know YOU are trying to figure this out for yourself and if and when you want their advice, you will ask for it. Meanwhile, could they please just be a 'friend' and listen? Tell them kindly that you appreciate their concern but their two cents is causing you more heartache. If they can't understand that, then just bluntly tell them you will no longer discuss the sitch with them. PERIOD!
Serenity the outside world may not understand why you are doing what you are doing but each and every person on the board does. You are never alone.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
