Reading your response to Sandi, reminds me how similar (but different!) our sitch's are... You still have this nagging reminder in the back of your mind that he is planning on moving out, and making some progress in doing so (individual bills), YET you are getting along better than ever, and enjoying your "family" life.
Read my reply to you on my thread re: walls.
I'm drained w/ya, sistah!
I'm wondering how long this can continue w/out affecting our health...
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
