That's not really a boundary. It's just saying that you respect the other's need to grow. It doesn't give them cart blanche to continue hurting the LBS.
The thing about our WASs are is that they believe they are "entitled" to go out and step all over the emotions of the LBS without any consequences. They enjoy doing what they are doing and "to hell" with what they're spouse thinks.
Do you want her having sex with another man? No? Well, there's your boundary. Period.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
