Thank you for posting. I remember that my sister told me recently XH said to my niece that he is very happy with OW. That was at the very beginning of their R. And what happened? They broke up after having lived together for about two years. Last Christmas XH wrote to me that since he left me he had no love anymore!
I asked him not to write to me anymore about his GF or what they do and therefore I don't know if he has OW at the moment. But he does not like to live by himself and surely has somebody.
On another note, XH already replied to my recent e-mail since I asked him for some advice.
In my e-mail to XH I mentioned how nice summer is where I live and that I go swimming a lot. He wrote he is glad that I enjoy swimming.
He also wrote that he is reasonably happy and quite likes it where he lives, but that he sometimes misses the RV and what he did in summer in my area. If he could he would come every summer for a few weeks to do it but of course, it would not be possible financially. He also mentioned that it will be his birthday soon and that his age seems so terribly old to him!
It always makes me sad when XH writes, especially these days as we always enjoyed summer together the most.
