As you know, I don't blow smoke up people's butts, just to make them feel better. I'm going to call 'em like I see 'em.
This:
Originally Posted By: Serenity13
I don't answer to anyone...Haven't in a long time and not going to start...
Don't tell me how to live my life...
Don't tell me what decisions I need to make...
. . . doesn't jibe with this:
Quote:
I need a place for me and the boys...
The truth is, you DO need his help right now, and you ARE answerable to others. I've had to learn this the hard way myself -- I am a VERY prideful and stubborn man, and I detest having to ask other people for help, or relying on people, but sometimes you gotta suck it up for the sake of your kids.
It's also how other people are blessed -- by helping you.
I'm with Mac -- talk to him and secure the place to live for you and your kids. Compromise with him.
