Need some quick advice on possible sex liaison with my Wife and someone else this upcoming weekend.
I just took this past weekend after discussing with Wife how she will be taking the next 2 weekends so I deserved some time to cool out and do something good for myself.
Going to dinner with Wife tonight to discuss schedule with kids. We're in-house separation and she has told me she wants to date and have sex with others. Tells me I can do the same if I like, but I'm focused on Divorce Busting and really don't want just short term pleasure. I want my wife and family to be happy together.
Anyway - she's taking this next weekend for herself. Tells me she's going to be with her girlfriend and family. Problem is she has packed her sexiest cocktail dress, new sexy panties, and shorty night gowns. Obviously I think she's going to meet someone for sex. She doesn't know I know what she's packed and I'm not going to tell her I know this.
Already told her in front of our marriage therapist last week that if that is what she is going to do I'd really rather just have her tell me rather than hide it. At least that way I can deal with it rather than obsess about whether this is really just a "girls weekend."
I'm thinking of mentioning tonight at our dinner after we have eaten and when the time seems relaxed what we discussed with the therapist. Here's what I'm thinking of saying. Please give me your feedback:
"I'm giving you your space as a friend during our separation. As we discussed we both have issues we need to work on, and our therapist told us getting involved with others during this time prevents us from working out those issues. As I mentioned it would help me not to obsess - just tell me if you're going to meet someone for romance this weekend."
