Also make sure to validate your W's feelings in the MC session. Not about D and not about OM. But about feelings she may have of things you need to work on or things you may have done that she is upset about.

Try at the your best possible to not show any frusturation or disbelief. That may not be easy, but try anyways.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...