How did everything go on your interview the other week?
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
It went really well. I was confident in myself and answered the questions with ease. But I don't think I got the job I haven't heard back from them yet and I should have heard back last week so I'm pretty sure I didn't get it. Thanks for asking! I appreciate it!
I'm still gonna continue to find something else..
Me: 25 years young H: 37 No Kids M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th) Together: 4years Bomb: June 12th, 2009
**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**
Call them and ask if the position has been filled yet. They may still be in the position of making a decision. Also, this gives you the chance to network and make relationships with people. You never know, they may know of another position available there or at another company. That happened to me once. I applied for a job and didn't get it but after talking to the interviewer I was referred to another company for another job. What do you have to lose? This is the new you with a new attitude!
Me-47 WAW-42 D-16 S-14 M-22 yrs T-19 yrs ILYBNILWY-3 years ago. Full Story and original posts: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...066#Post1781066
Call them and ask if the position has been filled yet.
I emailed them a few days ago to thank them for meeting with me and that I looked forward to hearing from them but didn't hear anything back. I'm just going to go ahead with sending out more resumes to every single possible job opening!!
So I have to get some thoughts out of my head. I'm having a really difficult day today. I don't know why. Maybe the heat is getting to me. I've been laying around doing absolutely nothing. At one point, I was just standing in the middle of the room, looking at the floor. That scares me. It really, really scares me.
I'm really angry at H. So unbelieveably angry. For putting me through this, for leaving me behind to deal with everything. Why did he marry me? What happened to the vows? This room is still filled with a lot of his stuff. I don't know what to do with it. There's clothes, all of his precious old photos, cameras, coats, shoes, etc etc. I know that his photos mean everything to him, why doesn't he come get it or something. I'm certainly not going to send it to him. But I know why he won't come get it. He doesn't want to come back here. And he doesn't want to see me so I can't go into town to meet him.
So what do I do with all of his stuff when I move? Do I bring everything that belongs to him with me? Or do I throw it away? I certainly can't keep everything here at my parents. They will not tolerate his stuff being here as they do not like him one bit for what he's done and would definitely throw everything of his away. But when I move, I can't bring everything of his with me. There's too much. And I don't want to throw his stuff away because it's HIS stuff and it would also make me sad. But I can't keep it forever. I've mentioned all of his stuff here that he needs to get but he ignores it everytime. WHY?? Does he not want his stuff!! I can leave it in a box outside somewhere if he wants, he doesn't have to see me! ARGH. Why is he being so ridiculously selfish. He did this with the phone, I gave him so much time to tell me what he wanted to do with the phone and he wouldnt say so I ended up canceling it so I don't have to pay for HIS phone, and he ends up giving me a guilt trip. WTF.
Why is he being so selfish?? He's like an angry child. Won't answer any questions, won't talk to you, gives the silent treatment, and then gets angry and makes you feel bad when you do something they don't like even though they didn't want to talk to you about it (ie the phone). He's just running away from his problems. He always does that. He hates confrontation. He hates conflict and shoves it under the rug every single time. This is his marriage!! He can't run away from this. And if he does .. and is, he's being a complete coward.
I'm trying to understand, I'm trying to forgive, I'm trying not to get angry but its so hard when you try to be nice and you get nothing back. I'm sick of it all. I just want to be rid of this. Rid of this childish behavior. He's 37 for fecks sake, he should act like it.
Me: 25 years young H: 37 No Kids M: almost 3 years (anniv coming up Sept 25th) Together: 4years Bomb: June 12th, 2009
**LOVE WILL FIND A WAY FOR TWO FOOLS IN THE RAIN**
In your last post, you mentioned your H at least 10 times more than you talked about yourself.
STOP WASTING TIME AND ENERGY ON SOMEONE YOU CAN'T CONTROL!!
You stated: "This is his marriage, he can't just run away from it." Um, excuse me, is that not EXACTLY what he's done? Why are you in a tailspin about what to do w/his "stuff" when you move -- you don't even have a place yet! Ever hear of Rubbermaid containers -- get some and throw his stuff in them -- problem solved. Obviously this "stuff" is not as important to him as you think it is. If you don't have room for it - throw it out. It's just stuff.
It seems like you fixate on things THAT DON'T MATTER - does this help you procrastinate what you need to be doing for you?
How about your laundry? If I remember correctly, you said you haven't done your laundry in six weeks. Which for a grown woman is ridiculous, I don't care how many clothes you have.
For heaven's sake - - at least get one load of laundry done.
Focus on what you are doing, what you can do, what you can control. Don't let the other stuff drag you down -- we've all been there and know how that goes.
Keep up the good work, and get up off the floor from the giant 2x4 I just swung at you!
