Thanks Jeff, for checking in and yes, I`m thrilled to get some virtual hugs too!

H is gone out. Didn`t tell any of us where. But I`m glad he`s gone. I find the tension after these kinds of blow outs hard to take,though I haven`t taken xanax today. Don`t want to get hooked on the stuff.

Yes, everything is my fault! I know that!

Anyway, I got through this evening by being civil but not over the top all-conversational of course. Just confined it to the kids and I kept moving.

Hard to know what else to do.

Well, except have fun of course!Having a couple of gfs around for coffee tomorrow and another pal rang with an idea for a girls` day out which I`m really looking forward to, so lots of doors opening in other areas.

You sound like you`re adjusting well, Jeff and having fun too.Thanks for watching this space!