Hey M, what you describe doesnt surprise us all here I think anymore, but its sad to read. I just dont understand your H at all, but having heard what my bf has been saying all weekend, its like, I am sure there is a lot of immense confusion in him and he cant remember alot of the things that make you mad and doesnt know what the hell he is doing. Still, its been dragging on for 2/3 years now hasnt it and its not surprising you are very very sick of it.

Sorry I've not been around much.. I am for a bit this evening! Hugs to you
Al xxx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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