In your last post, you mentioned your H at least 10 times more than you talked about yourself.
STOP WASTING TIME AND ENERGY ON SOMEONE YOU CAN'T CONTROL!!
You stated: "This is his marriage, he can't just run away from it." Um, excuse me, is that not EXACTLY what he's done? Why are you in a tailspin about what to do w/his "stuff" when you move -- you don't even have a place yet! Ever hear of Rubbermaid containers -- get some and throw his stuff in them -- problem solved. Obviously this "stuff" is not as important to him as you think it is. If you don't have room for it - throw it out. It's just stuff.
It seems like you fixate on things THAT DON'T MATTER - does this help you procrastinate what you need to be doing for you?
How about your laundry? If I remember correctly, you said you haven't done your laundry in six weeks. Which for a grown woman is ridiculous, I don't care how many clothes you have.
For heaven's sake - - at least get one load of laundry done.
