Hi Tundra,

Glad to hear you are seeing some changes. Just take it easy, and do what you know is working, as slow as it may seem...

I had some talk with W this weekend, kind of laid out my sitch with my living situation, and money situation (we were told 'no more overtime' this week until the end of the year...) - so I am displaced again, and looking at less money coming in than ever. Maybe didn't do my best DBing, but at least W knows the sitch, and she sounded unsure of her future as well... Time and money are both going to be tight or non-existent the way things are going.

She's still "thinking about it" and said she needs a little time. I told her yesterday that I felt like she was avoiding me, or at least avoiding the subject, and she finally told me "we'll talk sometime..." Told her I'd give her all the time she needed, but I also felt like I am running out of time because of the D date set in October... She indicated that we'd talk soon.

At least we talk to each other now, and we actually get along quite well - and we have been for some time...


Me: 46
W: 46
M: 9.5 yrs
D4, D9
D filed by her 11/3/08
Agrees to try rec at mediation 1/28/09
Says she still wants D in counseling 3/25/09
W and I back in DB counseling (!) 8/20/09
3rd Bomb 9/2/09