Hi there, I would ask myself the same thing after H and I had a great time together with our three year old S. Basically, I've learned the answer is this: They go out with us, have a blast....start to feel confused because they had so much fun....then they start to "remember" the bad stuff....and decide the one fun night you just had was a fluke and we're trying to confuse them. I've learned the best course of action is to keep on course, make sure the next interaction is just as relaxing....not necessarily as fun, but it has to be relaxing....then you have to be consistent so they know the changes are real.
