I understand the health insurance thing. I was in the same situation. To be honest, if I end up divorcing I wont be able to afford my car insurance anymore either.
I dated early in my separation too. But I realized that I couldnt commit to a relationship when I was still as devestated by H's A and the idea of D just terrified me. And the guy was a crazy jerk . I dont think that its a good idea to try to establish a serious R while this is going on. Even when people think that they will be ok during a D, its very painful and a new relationship just doesnt need that drama.
That was just a little bit of my man hater showing before!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...