Originally Posted By: K4D
I think one thing that crossed my mind this morning is I feel like I have nothing to offer W. She doesn't need me financially. She does far better than I do financially. She has no lack of guys showing interest in her that she can pick who she wants.

All I have to offer is unconditional love and support and that seems to be of no interest to her.

I'm not sure what else I can bring to the table other than what I said and that I am the father of our kids.

Kevin


Hey K - Wow! I have only been posting to you for a few days. Actually started ion Orich's thread. You came across on his thread as very confident, self assured, focused and strong. When I read your posts here, I see the complete opposite. I'm not into 2x4's but you're as close as I've been to throwing some.

Listen, go read your posts to others. They are awesome. Now imagine you were on my thread and I just wrote what you wrote. What would you say to me???

Detach bro!! It's the hardest part, especially when you still love your wife. It doesn't mean that because you detach you don't love her any more. Not at all. I'm afraid that if you are giving even a sniff of the guy that's posting here, it's going to be a major turnoff. I know you don't have much interaction but bro, you need to work on yourself. Now!!

No she doesn't need you financially. So what! Would you want her to want you because of that?? Who would want to be with someone for that reason?

What you bring to the table is a handsome, honest, family man with great core values, integrity and class, who is a lot stronger than any one can imagine right now becuase he is dealing with a fight of his lifetime head on.

Kevin it's time. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and take care of you!! Get busy living.

Strength and Honor.

Mules

Last edited by mulesqb; 07/27/09 07:20 PM.

M 43
W 44
M 17
T 22
S16,12,9
Bomb 2/05/08
I served her 1/06/09
S'd 3/15/09
D'd 12/21/09



"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.