Ahhh dammit - why can't people just cut a bit of slack.

What has happened to bro to tip him like this?
Have you talked to him?
He must know your sitch.

Throwing everyone out because eldest has an attitude?
Gotta be more to it than this.

And no - you will NOT be broken.

Go find out - discuss - gently - you must know the drill by now - make a plan mum!

Mac