back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Steady Thanks...sometimes it takes another person to see what is right in front of my eyes.
On 1 - the kids point taken. I lose site of that when all this starts to happen. D9 S5

On 2 - I will keep on keepin on until she says something.

On 3 - We didnt have the money or babysitters to take care of the kids (+ i travel for work around this time of year) so we said makes sense to do it when they are full time in school ('10). She did research and found a place that had evenings. I said that is huge. That makes a big difference, lets talk when I get back from my trip and see how we can work this out. She has said nothing in 5 days.

On 4 - She brought up lets do this or that in the yard or around the house in the fall. And lets get the kids in this or that. W then drops it. So I say I will or we can or lets discuss and W acts like nothing was ever said. I just dont want to read anything into it. And I am not sure if I can bring things up that we could/should do in the future as it might seem pushy or presumptuous.