Thank you very much wifey. This place is the last place I can go where anyone still wants me to save this marriage. Last night my father, who really believes in marriage and has always been in the "work it out" camp basically told me there is no way to have a marriage with someone who acts like my w. has. He basically told me to move on. It is hard to keep the faith. But I do still love her. I feel like a fool, but I do still love her.