There was years in the middle since this started and that is exactly how it seemed. H never asked - what I did, how I felt, where I went, what I was doing - I mean never. The things I got away with!!!
It seems to be coming back a piece at a time, we both spent the majority at home or together, folks stopping by, I saw him interact and smile a lot. We even formed a plan for next weekend already even though we are both going opposite directions. I think the guards and fences and brick walls are coming down...mine and his.
My problem - when do I trust again? not just if he is out having an affair. But if this is really happening or if he's just biding him time until his messy finances are back on track. Oh btw, I stopped asking earlier this year but he finally contributed towards the mortgage again this month.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
