We don't have any joint cc accounts, so that's good. Do they always spend money like crazy?

No, I don't want to cut and run, I want to listen to my heart and let my emotions calm down first. But, I do want to fast forward and have him return already, but I know he's not ready and neither am I. Just looking for the easy answers...

didtheyreadit.com is the program I use so I can tell if he's read my e-mail, how many times, where, etc.


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B