How do you wait this out?

[WCW]

What does LRT stand for?

Last Resort method in DB.

What about when they do return? Are they that different from before?

Don't hit the fast forward and wonder about when they return already. Different? Probably, and for the better.

I have a program that shows when he reads it and he's read it a couple of times, the weird thing is, so has someone else.

No kidding? what program does that?

I feel like I've lost everything and I never had a chance to try and 'fix' it because I didn't know what he was thinking and what he needed that I wasn't providing in our marriage. Please! Somebody give me some strength to go on...

I felt the same way. It seemed like one day my H just changed like flipping a light switch. I knew the week he changed but didn't understand why until 9 months later....ow. I still don't know what drove him to leave our M behind, he can't or won't clue me in on what I did or didn't do. You have to reach deep inside of yourself to find daily or hourly strength to keep on keeping on.

My friends want me to file for divorce because they think it would be easier for me to move on with my life.

Of course! it's usually easier to cut and run than it is to wade thru problems. Will that fix your life?

Do keep an eye on the finances. Do get your name off of any joint accounts, or get his name off. It's not easy to get your name off joint cc, especially if there is a balance. By then it's too late...