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Sorry chaps - pleasantly mellow (read plastered).

Read my thread for some disjointed details smile
All good.

I'll catch u on the morrow!

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Originally Posted By: Serenity13
Why in the world does she need no less then 3 grand a month? I have 2 kids and don't even need that much...

Basically she wants her cake and eat it to...

She wants her own life (right now) as long as you are willing to support it...

Eff that...

If she needs that much money a month, then she either needs to get a couple of jobs or not be so high maintence...

Other then that, I am happy your attitude is still positive...It is the absolute worst situation to find yourself in however you are doing a fantastic job with your PMA...


YOW!

Lovit - every single person is saying exactly the same thing.

However in the defense of the W gotta do a little maths here - yes I know that 3000 is 3000 in whichever country you live in but the cost of living does differ.

I earn an average wage and she's asking for one seventh of that wage. BUT after getting rid of the bond, bills, repayments etc. she really is getting far more than I have left for us.

I have NO idea how the hell I managed to give her R1500 this month. Something had to give and I'll be blowed if I see what it was - maybe food - wasn't eating very well early on. And the dogs had cream crackers on thursday so that would be a good bet.

Lets see what tomorrow brings for us all. You guys still have a stack of Sunday left. Ours is winding down this side of the pond (4:30 pm)

Serenity - if you want to "do" the pillock of a H - I'll hold him and you feel free to pummel some sort of sense into him.

We all seem to have some off-days. I think thats allowed in the grand scheme of things.

Guilt- bet you he has that in spades - he's just better at hiding it than we are.
Guilt has no meaning on our side of the fence
We've all moved away from that $hit. Doesn't have a place in our personal life anymore. We've all thrashed the living daylights out of ourselves. Enough of that!

Up with the PMA is what I say!
Gonna write a catchy song/video one day and post on BoobTube.

Trust is something that is earned - worth much more than all the gold on earth. Agreed?

Have a wonderful day one and all.

Catch u later after doing a few more husbandly duties.

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Morning all smile

I hope this finds you all well...

Same stuff here...

No word from hubby since last week...

Been 2 weeks and 3 days since he bailed and he has yet to see his kids and only spoke to the little one once...

Don't get me started...

Had a nice weekend...

Went to Church and had a little counsel with my Pastor yesterday...

Asked him about divorce since everyone I know is throwing that around to me...

He asked me what I wanted and when I told him, he agreed so I am not listening to anyone anymore...

He stated he can still see tension on my face which means I am not hiding it very well smile

I wish I could take a very long vacation to somewhere very far away...

Away from people...

Away from the phone...

Away from the computer...

I still feel like I am numb...

I still feel like I am in a nightmare and just can't wake up frown


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Honey - book your flight.

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Don't tempt me smile

I may take you up on that offer.


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Serenity,

It's easy - take flight - half way over the pond turn right and here you are wink

Chin up sweets.

You know from my sitch that I'm dealing with a black hole as well.
Who the heck knows why they flip?
Hot, cold, up, down - floundering round in a daze. We're better than that.

Shine that light you mentioned Serenity. Show it to the world.
I'm sure I'll spot it from here!

There's not a problem with showing them that you're tense! So what that H reads into it what he does - Guilty as Charged. Twit that he is. But he's your twit - apologies.

Catch u later. Getting a bit wobbly with no food and a few Harriers and Coke with one of my mates earlier on.

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No light right now my friend...

Bad enough that we got kicked out of our house but I am pretty sure my brother just kicked us out of his as well...

Please anyone tell me could I fall any further before someone extends a hand?

How much is one person supposed to take?


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Oh dear God Serenity.

Who is we? The whole fam? What the heck happened????????

Very concerned Mac

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All 3 of us...

Nothing like being kicked when you are down huh?

Apparently my oldest has an attitude (Really??? Wouldn't you at this point???) though mind you we stay out of the way and do our own thing but my brother can be an ass like that...

I will not be broken.


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Ahhh dammit - why can't people just cut a bit of slack.

What has happened to bro to tip him like this?
Have you talked to him?
He must know your sitch.

Throwing everyone out because eldest has an attitude?
Gotta be more to it than this.

And no - you will NOT be broken.

Go find out - discuss - gently - you must know the drill by now - make a plan mum!

Mac

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