It did cause me to start down the mental thought road of "How inconsiderate, how selfish, just like her mother (brushing off any impact her actions have on others)...do I really want to be married to her" -- Stop!! That's not going to get me anywhere! Besides, I am really just frustrated because the problem hit me at the same time as an unplanned (an partially self inflicted) "crisis" at work.
Little things like this seem to spin me up right now because I am already generally angry and feeling taken advantage of.