Cat, this is the fourth New Me confrontation we`ve had. He should have had the message by now that he`s not going to upset or anger me.(well, not to his face anyway.) Thanks for giving me hope that the attacks will slow down and eventually cease. Boy, I need that to happen.
Beginnersmind, yes, that`s what I need is a beginners mind! You say "this is a journey you are meant to take" well, I sure heard that before but for me, it takes a while for anything to sink in. Gotta keep pluggin away and learnin that one! Anyway, beyond telling H to get lost,there`s nothing else I can do for now except stick to the DB formula.
I`m at this a while, BM, in fact dealing with his moods and anger for 17 years of marriage and before. Yes, MLC has made it worse. I already got a protection order against him in family court as he threatened to punch me last Oct so that at least has put a curb on his threats to hit me and given me more peace of mind. He still doesn`t get why I got the protection order though...
Hopeful, thanks so much for posting! Need all the opinions and support I can get. (2x4s very welcome also if anyone feels I need them!)Hadn`t thought of his projecting his fool stuff on me.
Yes, his self esteem is very low. Always has been. And I haven`t helped that in the past. He`s been in this funk for two years! Thought he`d hit rock bottom several times and would come bouncing up but it looks like he`s in a bottomless pit.
