back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

Ou are right. I went through this from feb to June. There is not much more life I can get or afford to get. I am home because she is with the kids all day and needs a break From them. I never came home on time from work. So now I beeline for home as best I can. Those were some of my 180'a. The complaint that I have been told this time around are need to go more so when she goes out she does not feel guilty. Tough as I am starting to travel more for work. That was it.

We had no discussions until last evening since she moved into the other room. I guess what I am struggling with is how to keep ny connections with her. A kiss good morning and night. A touch if I can possibly sit next to her on the couch. I am not sure on these except I can do them until she says she is not comfortable or does not wnt them to occur.

I think a portion of this "problem" has to do with her wanting to go to school and "our" decision to hold off til sept 2010. She chased down everything and did school visits and didn't say a word until I overheard a conversation and called her on it.

I also have these bouts with what the reality of the sitch is...W talking about what we will do in the fall with he kids and the house. Not sure if I should put things on the table for the future.