But there were a 1,001 things WAW did, as well. And those things tend to be silenced in the DBology. Silenced because, in a literal sense, there's nothing you can do about them.
But it seems to me that you should absolutely be aware of them, not only because they impact your DB kung-fu in a myriad of ways, but also because they are part of the Truth of the relationship.
And if you take those "past" things out, and dust them off, and look at them in the light of day, you might -- just might -- learn some things about yourself. And the rose-colored glasses might no longer be so useful when looking at WAS.
Because maybe in some / many ways -- and maybe in some or many important ways -- WAS just might not be what you thought
That's the joy of piecing in any "new" marriage.
I can handle it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
