Your observations are noted, but I am not going to try to solve any of her problems. I want to be aware of any changes in her attitude/comments/demeanor b/c I want to understand the potential causes (note I said potential - b/c that's as far as my trying to figure that out goes). If it is potentially due to job, then I can better understand, validate b/c I am not the likely cause of those feelings.
As far as the way she feels about her career, that is just for the folks here. I will only bring this up with her (later in the future if there is a future for "us") if it gets out of hand.