lol im even more lost.. so some are saying be friends and work on it from there and your saying bassically telling her she is a back staber why should i befriend you? and say screw off
not telling her to screw off. never be mean to a woman. that is an automatic strike against you.
lets look at it this way. you are cheating on your wife. she knows it. she is posting on this board for advice to be your friend and how to be the best number 2. would that be attractive to you? you got a nice piece on the side, who is willing to try new things and give you what you want. and your wife is there just waiting for it to fizzle out. you can drag that out as long as you want because you got it good. 2 women wanting your attention and love. there is now reason for you to recommit to your marriage, because your marriage is willing to hang in limbo as long as you need it to. maybe you come back every once in a while just to give hope and make sure she is still waiting.
But, Now, if she dropped the rope. stopped pursuing. stopped being needy. stopped wanting you back. wouldnt you start questioning what you were losing. wouldnt you start looking at your affair partner and think, its fun to sneak around and screw, but what else does she have to offer other than sneaking around and screwing other men. just a thought, maybe I'm wrong, maybe woman come back because they pity the men they are screwing around on and find that attractive.
