what is the WORSE thing to happen in a marriage to convince someone that they need to get out? when do people have a "right"?
It depends on your belief about M. Did you make an everlasting covenant or not? For better or for worse? Or not? Can you stand through the tough times? Can you face the hardest thing in your life and keep faith? Did you make a vow for life no matter what?
I think you have to ask yourself these questions and see where you stand.
Kevin
I know where I stand. I was trying to get you to try and view this seperation for your wife's point of view. That is very important in your understanding and possible reconcillation.