Thanks so much for sharing your considerable wisdom with me. I agree that out sitch's are very similar and out H's are exhibiting many similar behaviours.
I feel strongly that H and I haven't finished yet although H maintains he just wants to be friends and definitely not my husband. In the meantime, after a very pleasant dinner last Friday which he obviously enjoyed he's now quite distant and removed again.
I think I DB really well but it's when I get tired and emotional that I 'stuff up'.
I look forward to continuing to chat, Sanderika.
My surgery is this coming Thursday so I'll be away from here for a week or even more.
