Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[Bravehardt]

Sandi

Uh, I have been signed up for this plan! I do not see ANY desire on the part of my W to flirt with ANYONE. During the night the bomb dropped, she even said "I don't want ANYONE touching me" and "I don't want a R (romantic) with ANYONE

I heard pretty much the same thing myself!

but I am at a loss as to whether I should bring up hormone testing/treatment or even how to do it without it coming off as something akin to a DAM blaming his W's issues on "that time of the month

I did bring this subject up with my W in May. I let her know that I was here to help her anyway I could. I suggested going into see a doctor to get some blood work done. Just to make sure everything was ok. If theres nothing going on great if there is then we can proceed as per doctors order.

It was not recieved well. She asked me, if I asked you to go to the doctors, would I do it for her? I said sure I would. She then brought up everytime in the past 10 years I did not go when she thought I should.

So I've let it slide for a while and the subject comes up here, must be something to it. I was thinking of asking a friend who has been through it to get her doctor to send some offical looking letter that has a marketing package inside for their practice.