bad weekend, really miss my H, or do I just miss the life we had? Also OW still in picture and they've been doing stuff together involving other friends. Feel like my life is being taken over and I'm being shunted to one side - ugh! Got a bad case of the 'it's not fairs'. Better today though.
My goal is to have one conversation with my H that can't be misinterpreted as me being spiteful or malicious he seems to pick up on the tiniest thing and turn it round against me. Why is that? Guilt? Justifying his actions? Who knows and as we say here I can only control myself and not him.
Venting only.
I never initiate anything but next time we speak I will avoid anything that could be seen as contentious ie asking him how he is, which is always seen as me suggesting that he's not happy/looking good. Perhaps I should add in some sort of compliment?
Contact is sporadic though and only kid related. Therefore few and far between as they are all adults so don't need picking up from my place. He does have some stuff of mine though so I'm going to ask for it back and see if I can start a non confrontational conversation.
