And the first text came through on cue (nearly - was expecting it tomorrow morning. I can't believe how I handled it - sorry to let some anger creep into the replies but being Clark Kent wasn't working (doormat mode)
Morning ken, hope you had a good weekend. Thank you for sending my camera with karin. I do appreciate it. I need the cable to. Regarding the money I need atleast R2500 to survive. Please let me know when I can come and fetch the money. Thank you. Have a nice day.
----- Phone call set a boundry and I put phone down (replies cut out but most were polite until the end)
Hi honey! Hows your day going. Saw you yesterday - looking good. Remembered it was Xmas in July lunch. was confused about Anco's birthday. Yadayada. Doing my best. Left short of money but didn't mind. Dogs and I on biscuits. THHEN she said "Oh please Ken everybody knows... and said it was all bullsh1t. Bullsh1t I said was very indignant. I'll call you later and put the phone down.
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Then more text's
W Please ken, I know that you bought a bag of dog biscuits last wednesday. You also had money to buy clothes for yourselve this month. My underwear are worn down and I dont have money to buy new once. I would not have been in this situation. Let me know when I can come tom. Thank you.
M Bought will borrowed money. Drinks paid 4 by mainstay. U chose 2 put yourself in this situation NOT me. Woman from court wants your answer make your mind up. Call u later
W You have put me in this situation know one else. If you would have treated me the way that I should have been. Then I would not have left. It is your choice whether I should go ahead or not. Let me know.
M Bull dust. And I'm trying to dig us both out of this crap. What do you do? Nothing. Letting others do your dirty work. I should be ashamed of yourself. Get home and work on what's important - us. Your dessision. Love or hate?
M Last txt 2 u then will call later - wise words - people don't leave people, they leave situations. The situation has improved. Ive improved. My love and respect 4 u has grown NOT died. Hugs love and every other thing u desire (including new kickers) really want u back
W It is just a shame, that you did not work on it while I was with you. And know that I left after you pushing and shoving me around. Know you want to work at it. Sorry but 3 times was one to many. You should have done something about this long time ago. All your fault. Atleast I can keep my head high.
M Told u no more txts. I have faith in you and me and us. Will call u later I promise. Take it easy sweetpea. Hugs & tiny kiss on cheek
W I have nothing to say ken. You had your chance and you screw it up. Let me know, if you are going to give me the money or if I should phone the women at the court.
M Do what you feel you need to do. It takes 2 to screw;-)
W Are you going to give me the money tom or not. I am trying to do this in a civil manner. Let me know, if you want to do it the same way or not. I have given you everything I had. And you through it all back in my face.
M And everything I gave to u over last month u said thank u for followed by a kick in the nuts. Not nice and showed me what u thought of me. We can sort thus out without ANYONE else. U said that. Now choose to do it. Call u later. Now I need to get work done 2 pay our bills. Hugs
W O and please dont forget what I have done and what I have paid while I was still there. Dont ever forget.
M Will talk later. Hugs
I've no idea where this is taking us. But as one good friend said a while ago...
