Honey, he has legal responsibilities to you and your kids, and he was being a bully to suggest otherwise. You will be okay in the end, I can promise you this. I'm not saying it will be easy, but it will be the sort of hard that, if you stay focused on taking care of yourself and being true to yourself, will be worth it. You will come out the other side a happier woman.
Envision yourself past this situation, as if you have already been through it. Keep THAT vision in your mind if it gets difficult, and keep breathing. And keep posting here...spew it all, say whatever you need to say, and there will be honest feedback and support.
You are brave, and you are going to be okay.
SD
Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
