2)if she is free to do your house that way, you need to ask her for a key to her place so you can come & go as you please there!
Thats exactly what I told my W.
M (46) W (45) S (17) D (14) D (6) T (20) M (17) Seperated 3/2009 . When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze." Isaiah 43:2