Attaboy, good for you. You just needed to get your footing. All you can do is just keep living your life. I think you handled that phone call wonderfully.

Really, T, try to continue to let go of the anger. Not for her sake, but for yours. I know it is difficult at times, considering the havoc she has wrought. But, it just gets in the way of our moving forward toward a life of peacefulness and grace.

So, do what you do best - reflect, adjust and act according to what your gut tells you.