Ultimately, you are the only one who *definitely* has to live for the rest of your life with whatever kind of spouse/parent/person you are. Which of your identified "wrongs" (if any) also feel like an authentic part of *your* truth, stuff you'd for realz like to knock yourself upside the head for now? Time spent working on *that* stuff isn't wasted in any universe.

Last edited by Kettricken; 07/27/09 04:56 AM.
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